Beautiful Paradoxes: Finding Serenity in Recovery's Contradictions
The longer I am abstinent attending O.A. meetings and work my steps, the more I realize that I will never graduate from-step programs. This is one of the many paradoxes uncovered in recovery.
Imagine finding peace in the midst of chaos, or gaining control by surrendering. These are just a couple of the paradoxes that make the journey of recovery so fascinating. In this episode of 'Promise of Recovery', host Lauren Lansrud explores these seemingly contradictory ideas that many A.A., N.A., O.A., and CoDA members encounter. Recovery isn't a straight path; it's filled with twists and turns that can be both baffling and beautiful.
One key paradox discussed is the idea that the longer someone stays abstinent and engaged in the program, the more they realize there's no 'graduation' from recovery. This might sound daunting, but it actually highlights the ongoing journey of self-discovery and growth. Another intriguing concept is the necessity to pass on the message of recovery to keep it.
Sharing experiences and helping others isn't just altruistic; it brings a sense of purpose and fulfillment that was often missing during active addiction. Abstinence itself is paradoxical. By avoiding certain foods or behaviors, individuals can find freedom from their obsessions. Yet, this serenity isn't necessarily tied to emotional stability but rather comes from taking proactive steps and making positive changes. Surrendering to a higher power or a recovery program can also lead to a surprising sense of control and peace.
Support groups like O.A. play a crucial role in this journey, offering a safe space for sharing experiences, strengths, and hopes. These groups provide a sense of community and belonging that can be a lifeline during tough times. Emotional serenity, another paradox, is achieved by accepting and processing emotions rather than suppressing them. The beauty of these paradoxes lies in their transformative power. By embracing them, individuals can find peace, purpose, and fulfillment in their recovery journey.
Tune in to this episode to delve deeper into these fascinating contradictions and discover how they can guide you towards a more serene life.