Barry L's Journey: The Birth of AA's 3rd Tradition
Episode Overview
Barry L shares his journey of sobriety since 1945. The origins and significance of AA's 3rd tradition. Challenges faced by LGBTQ+ members in early AA. Barry's friendship with Bill W and his contributions to AA literature. The importance of acceptance and unity within the AA fellowship.
Isn't it time, folks, to ask ourselves what would the master do in a situation like this? Would he turn this man away?
In this episode of Sober Cast, you'll hear Barry L, who has been sober since 1945, share his story and the origins of AA's 3rd tradition at the 50th World Conference in Montreal in July 1985. Barry, the first openly gay member of AA, discusses how the 3rd tradition – 'The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking' – came to be and its significance for inclusivity within the fellowship.
He reflects on the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ members in the early days of AA and the progress made over the years. Barry also shares personal anecdotes, including his friendship with AA co-founder Bill W and his wife Lois, and his involvement in writing the book Living Sober. This episode is a heartfelt tribute to Barry, who passed away three weeks after this talk, and a reminder of the importance of acceptance and unity in recovery.
Whether you're new to AA or have been part of the fellowship for years, Barry's insights offer valuable lessons on sobriety and compassion. Tune in to learn more about the history and evolution of AA's traditions, and how they continue to support members from all walks of life.