Therapists with BPD: Real Talk on Relationships, Work, and Healing
If people want to love me and choose to be in my life, they have to understand that it's going to be chaotic at times, they're going to be confused at times. But I really believe that people need to make an informed decision to love me, knowing what the consequences which is like, even when I am safe.
Ever wondered what it's like to navigate life with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) while aspiring to help others? This episode of 'Bold Beautiful Borderline' brings you an engaging conversation between hosts Laurie Edmundson, Sara Amundson, and their guest Jovi. Jovi, who is an aspiring therapist living with BPD, dives deep into the complexities of managing relationships, professional life, and therapy.
From discussing whether to disclose one's BPD diagnosis to clients to sharing personal coping mechanisms, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone dealing with or interested in mental health issues. The episode kicks off with an honest discussion about therapy and the tricky decision of self-disclosure. Jovi and Sara share their experiences, weighing the pros and cons of being upfront about their BPD with clients.
They highlight the importance of authenticity and how it can break down stereotypes and foster empathy. Relationships are another major topic. Jovi talks about their harm-reduced approach to self-harm and stresses the need for clear communication about boundaries and needs. Sara emphasizes finding people who are committed to their own mental health journey, underscoring the value of diverse support networks. Workplace dynamics also come under the spotlight.
Sara shares her experiences in the mental health field, discussing the benefits and challenges of self-disclosure at work. Jovi adds that finding a flexible and supportive work environment is crucial for managing BPD symptoms. Throughout the episode, you'll hear about different attachment styles, coping strategies, and the importance of therapies like DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) and mentalization. The conversation is not just informative but also deeply personal, offering a raw look into the lives of those navigating BPD.
If you're curious about mental health advocacy or just want to understand BPD better, this episode is a must-listen. Laurie, Sara, and Jovi's candid discussion will leave you with a greater sense of empathy and a deeper understanding of this often misunderstood condition.