Seeing Through the Fog: Are We Deceiving Ourselves About Narcissists?
This doesn't necessarily mean they're going out there and robbing establishments. They're also more likely to create social problems. People are losing everything they have- and I see this every day- because they work with people who are being destroyed.
Relationships can be a tangled web, especially when narcissism is involved. In this episode of 'Heal, Grow, Evolve', Kim Saeed takes a hard look at how we might be fooling ourselves about the true nature of narcissists. She breaks down the psychological traits of narcissistic personalities, emphasizing their lack of empathy and penchant for manipulation. Kim argues that we often romanticize the 'hurt' side of narcissists, labeling them as 'vulnerable' or 'self-aware', which can be a dangerous misconception.
She points out that while we have empathy and care about others' feelings, narcissists do not. This stark difference is crucial to understand for anyone entangled with a narcissist. One of the most harmful tactics narcissists use is isolating and brainwashing their victims, making them doubt their own perceptions. Kim stresses the importance of recognizing these signs and not projecting our own positive traits onto these individuals.
She also dispels the myth that someone who doesn't tick all the boxes on a narcissism checklist is safe to be around. Even one pathological trait can wreak havoc on someone's life. This episode is a blend of tough love and supportive advice, offering listeners the tools they need to identify and protect themselves from narcissistic behavior. Tune in to gain a clearer understanding and take steps toward your own healing journey.