All Aren't Welcome: James Powell's Path to Healing from Religious Trauma
We've been programmed to think that we need to believe, behave, think, feel, look and love in exactly the same way as others. We've been programmed to have a fear-based scarcity mindset programmed to search out and identify an enemy and to fight to keep them out or hold them down.
James Powell once believed that coming out to his family would bring peace and end the secrecy that shrouded his life. However, what followed were some of the loneliest years he had ever experienced. In this episode of 'This Little Light of Mine', James shares his deeply personal journey of navigating life as a closeted gay Christian in the Evangelical church.
He opens up about the increased anxiety and depression that came with his decision to be honest about his identity. Instead of feeling liberated, he faced new challenges and shifts in his relationships and mental health. James questions the common narrative that coming out is a one-time event that brings immediate relief.
Instead, he suggests that coming out is a continuous process, not just for LGBTQ+ individuals but for everyone who has ever had to reveal a significant part of themselves. He invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences: Did revealing your true self lift a weight off your shoulders, or did it bring new struggles? The episode delves into societal influences and the history of the Christian church's views on LGBTQ+ individuals.
James debunks myths like the idea that children become gay because of their parents, and he discusses the fear-based mindsets that many are conditioned to adopt. He emphasizes the importance of inclusivity and the painful yet necessary journey of healing and growth. James's story is a testament to the resilience required to embrace one's differences and thrive despite societal pressures. Tune in to hear James's heartfelt account of his ongoing journey towards mental, spiritual, and emotional health.
Whether you're dealing with similar issues or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights into the complexities of coming out and finding acceptance.