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Al-Anon: Tim M in Jerusalem in 2018
Al-Anon: Tim M in Jerusalem in 2018
Al-Anon: Tim M in Jerusalem in 2018
Saturday 4th March 2023
Tim M shares his Al-Anon journey, reflecting on relationships with alcoholics, connection, boundaries, and healing through forgiveness.
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Get the buttons here!Tim M's Journey in Al-Anon: Embracing Connection and Healing
If someone is repeatedly coming back, they're not after help, they're after something else.
What does it mean to truly connect with others in the shadow of alcoholism? Tim M's story offers a heartfelt look into this question. Speaking from Jerusalem in 2018, Tim shares his experiences as a member of Al-Anon, a group for those affected by someone else's drinking. Growing up surrounded by alcoholism, Tim struggled to make sense of its impact on his family until he discovered Al-Anon.
Through the program, he learned the value of connection and the necessity of releasing judgment in relationships. Tim's reflections are deeply personal and relatable. He opens up about his lifelong pattern of chasing people who were emotionally unavailable while avoiding those who sought genuine connection with him. This cycle left him feeling isolated. Al-Anon became a sanctuary where he found others who understood the complexities of living with an alcoholic family member.
This newfound community offered him a path to healing. One of the key themes Tim discusses is the unique intimacy that can develop in relationships with alcoholics. He describes how this bond often leads to letting loved ones get away with harmful behaviors. This form of closeness is something not everyone in AA might understand, but it resonates deeply within Al-Anon circles.
Tim also emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries to avoid becoming mentally obsessed with the alcoholic in one's life. Tim shares poignant stories about how letting go of judgment transformed his relationships, particularly with his mother. By releasing his critical views of her unhappiness, he found a deeper connection and forgiveness. His insights extend to the power of storytelling in changing our perception of the past and the role of prayer and forward planning in recovery.
For anyone touched by alcoholism, Tim's reflections offer valuable lessons on finding connection, maintaining healthy boundaries, and embracing forgiveness. His journey through Al-Anon provides a beacon of hope and practical wisdom for those seeking healing in their own lives.