Adoption, Trauma, and Healing: Brenda Bash Cooper's Story
Whether your family is touched by adoption or you’re just curious, this chat will inspire you to think deeper on the topic.
What happens when childhood trauma and adoption intersect? In this episode of the Safe Home Podcast, Beth Syverson reconnects with her childhood friend Brenda Bash Cooper to explore this very question. Brenda opens up about her own adoption journey and how it has shaped her life and career working with traumatized crime victims. Through candid conversation, Brenda shares the deep-seated feelings of unworthiness that many adopted individuals experience, attributing them to what she calls 'relinquishment trauma'.
The discussion doesn't stop there. Beth and Brenda delve into the complexities of adoptee identity, examining how attachment and biological connections play crucial roles. They also touch on the emotional challenges of finding biological parents and navigating family expectations. Brenda's story is a poignant reminder of the importance of unconditional love and support, especially for those grappling with addiction and mental health issues.
Whether you have a personal connection to adoption or are simply curious about its impacts, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt reflections. Brenda's experiences highlight the power of trauma-informed care and the potential for healing and growth. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the multifaceted world of adoption and trauma.