Silent Sabotage: The Hidden Harm of Abuse by Omission
It's important to see passive abuse as equally and perhaps even more destructive than overt abuse.
Imagine feeling hurt and confused, but not quite sure why. In this episode of the 'Narcissism Recovery Podcast', Yitz Epstein shines a light on the subtle yet devastating impact of abuse by omission. Unlike the obvious wounds inflicted by physical or verbal abuse, abuse by omission is a covert tactic that can be equally destructive. It involves neglecting responsibilities, avoiding confrontation, and withholding transparency in relationships, leading victims to question their reality and even defend their abuser.
Yitz breaks down how this form of abuse can cause deep emotional scars, leaving victims in a state of denial and confusion. He discusses how victims might idealize their abuser, creating a split perception of 'good' and 'bad' behavior that makes it hard to see the true nature of the relationship. Through self-reflection and a keen evaluation of one's relationships, Yitz encourages listeners to identify and break free from these toxic patterns.
He also touches on the importance of recognizing the psychic connection that can pull victims back into harmful relationships. If you're looking to understand the hidden damage of covert abuse and learn ways to foster healthier connections, this episode is a must-listen.