Imi Lo
Imi Lo
A Mother with BPD: What can you do now? (Audio Essay)
A Mother with BPD: What can you do now? (Audio Essay)
A Mother with BPD: What can you do now? (Audio Essay)
Monday 7th August 2023
Imi Lo explores the emotional impact and healing journey of having a mother with BPD in this insightful episode.
53 minutes
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Episode Overview
- Growing up with a mother with BPD means navigating a whirlwind of unpredictable reactions, affecting one's sense of self and emotional well-being.
- The aftermath of this experience includes codependency, identity confusion, and emotional trauma that persist into adulthood.
- Deciding whether to cut contact with a mother with BPD is a complex and challenging decision, influenced by emotional and societal factors.
- Setting boundaries and healing from the lifelong trauma are essential components of reclaiming autonomy and emotional well-being.
- The complexities of the mother-child relationship and its effects on identity and relationships underscore the profound impact of a parent with BPD.
Having a mother with BPD is immensely confusing. Individuals with borderline personality disorder are not bad people. Many people with BPD are highly empathic, sensitive and caring in nature. However, they become needy and desperate and focus on no one but themselves when they are emotionally triggered.
Ever felt like you're walking on eggshells around your mother? For those who grew up with a mother with borderline personality disorder (BPD), this is a familiar feeling. In this episode, Imi Lo takes you through the emotional rollercoaster of having a mother with BPD. It's not just about the chaos and confusion; it's about understanding the deep-seated effects such an upbringing can have on your identity, boundaries, and relationships.
You'll hear about the constant swing between love and cruelty, the aftermath of these turbulent dynamics, and the lingering fear of becoming like her. But it's not all doom and gloom. Imi also offers practical advice on how to set physical and emotional boundaries, the importance of letting go of the need to 'fix' your mother, and ways to reclaim your right to feel anger.
Whether you're contemplating cutting contact or choosing to stay in touch, this episode provides a roadmap for navigating these difficult decisions and rising above the chaos. It's a heartfelt guide for anyone looking to heal and find their own path forward.