Nobody in your eulogy really wants to know how many houses you have, how many cars you've got, how much money is left in the bank- because, trust me, if you've got family behind you- but what they're going to talk about is the impact you had on their lives or the lives of people around them, how you make people feel in a moment, at a particular time, what influence you have, and if that influence is for the good as opposed to being a self-centred all about me.