Choosing Friends Wisely: A2D's Episode #85 on Building Supportive Relationships
I found that for a long time I was very selfish and concerned primarily with my own needs and wants. I would say I looked out for the welfare of others, but in the rearview mirror, now, now that I know Christ, it's hard to see past my selfishness today- I feel I'm a bit more selective with who I spend my time.
Ever feel like you're constantly bending over backward to be a good friend? In this episode of 'A2D - From Addict to Disciple', David Hain and his group tackle the tricky topic of friendship dynamics in addiction recovery. Many folks in recovery struggle with the urge to people-please, thinking they need to be the perfect friend to be liked.
But what if the key isn't about being better for others, but rather, being better at choosing who you surround yourself with? David and his guests share their personal journeys, revealing how they learned to pick friends who genuinely support and uplift them. They discuss the exhaustion that comes from trying to please everyone and the liberating realization that it's okay to be selective about your circle.
The group also touches on the role of selfishness in both addiction and recovery, emphasizing that sometimes, putting yourself first is crucial for long-term well-being. Listeners will hear stories of navigating old friendships that may no longer serve their recovery and the importance of investing time in positive, fulfilling relationships. This episode is packed with heartfelt advice and practical tips for anyone looking to build a supportive network on their journey to sobriety.
Tune in to find out how choosing the right friends can make all the difference.