Louise Barnett
Louise Barnett
76. Hillary Butcher's Story: Motherhood, Sobriety & The Messy Middle
76. Hillary Butcher's Story: Motherhood, Sobriety & The Messy Middle
76. Hillary Butcher's Story: Motherhood, Sobriety & The Messy Middle
Monday 24th July 2023
Join Louise Barnett and Hillary Butcher as they explore motherhood, sobriety, and breaking free from societal norms in 'Together S.O.B.E.R.'
53 minutes
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Sobriety Toolkit
Creative Recovery Journeys
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Family Recovery from Addiction
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Episode Overview
- Hillary's journey through pregnancy and motherhood prompts deep reflection on her relationship with alcohol and its alignment with her values and aspirations as a mother
- Her candid and relatable approach creates a safe space for individuals to engage in meaningful conversations about their relationships with alcohol
- Empowerment of mothers to embrace their unique paths and redefine societal labels
- Creation of resources and a supportive community for mothers to explore their relationships with alcohol and motherhood
- Inspiration and empowerment for listeners, offering a glimpse into the transformative power of self-reflection and the pursuit of mental peace and sobriety
I think so many times, like, you know, when you think about hurting your mom, you think about hurting your kids, you think about hurting someone that you love, you think about it differently. You think about their reaction before you do the thing, you know, it kind of, uh, I feel like it would kind of decline the whole, um, don't ask for permission, ask for forgiveness later. Like what if we just don't even go there and we're just, we're right on the page of, is this going to make me proud?
Ever wondered how societal norms shape our relationship with alcohol, especially as parents? In this episode of 'Together S.O.B.E.R.', Louise Barnett sits down with Hillary Butcher, a pregnant mom of soon-to-be three boys, to unpack her journey through motherhood and sobriety. Hillary never considered herself an alcoholic, but the pressures and expectations around being a 'fun' mom led her to question her drinking habits.
From childhood trauma to toxic friend groups that glorified the 'mommy needs wine' culture, Hillary's story is a raw exploration of how alcohol subtly weaves its way into our lives. Hillary candidly shares how she used alcohol to manage stress and fit in socially, only to realize it was making her feel less like herself.
Her journey isn't just about quitting alcohol; it's about understanding why she drank in the first place and how those reasons no longer serve her as a mother. She dives into the societal pressures that make moms feel like they need a drink to cope or have fun, and how she's breaking free from those stereotypes. Listeners will find Hillary's honesty refreshing as she discusses the messy middle of her journey—those in-between stages where she's still figuring things out.
She emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and leaning on supportive communities to navigate these challenges. Hillary's mission is to empower other mothers to redefine their relationships with alcohol and societal labels, offering practical methods and heartfelt advice. Whether you're a parent questioning your own drinking habits or someone looking for real stories of change, this episode provides a safe space for meaningful conversation.
Hillary's story is a testament to the transformative power of self-awareness and the courage it takes to challenge societal norms.