Crafting a Parenting Plan That Works: Tips from Mediator Denise Banks-Wilson
Parents who are beginning is for they themselves to do a some type of values assessment, because when we're when we're creating our parenting plan and we are looking into activities, there are things that we're advocating for simply because they are traditions in our family, simply because there are things that we value.
Divorce can be a challenging journey, especially when kids are involved. One crucial aspect of navigating this path is creating a solid parenting plan. In this episode of the 'Starting Over Stronger Divorce Survival & Recovery' podcast, host Annie Allen sits down with mediator Denise Banks-Wilson to break down the art and science behind effective parenting plans. Denise Banks-Wilson shares her expertise, highlighting that a parenting plan is both an art and a science.
It's not just about legal terms; it's about crafting a roadmap that ensures the well-being of your children. She emphasizes the importance of covering core areas such as legal and physical custody, exchanges, communication, rules, responsibilities, and even who the child can spend time with. Communication is a key theme throughout the discussion. Banks-Wilson advises parents to avoid bad-mouthing each other and to be clear about Covid guidelines in their plans.
The pandemic has reshaped many aspects of our lives, and parenting plans are no exception. She suggests doing a values assessment to understand what truly matters to you and your family. Extracurricular activities are another significant piece of the puzzle. Who handles fundraising? Who takes care of transportation? These questions need clear answers in your plan. Banks-Wilson also stresses the value of having a coach to guide you through the process.
She walks parents through an activity audit for their children and underscores the importance of understanding various schedule models. This episode is packed with practical advice and insights from Denise Banks-Wilson, making it a must-listen for anyone going through a divorce with children. Tune in to learn how to create a parenting plan that works for you and your family.