Dave Holmes on Anxiety, Career Hurdles, and Finding Self-Acceptance
I think the and I've recently started therapy within The Last Couple Years, and because I, because I started to notice that I was getting less bold with my career, like I was, well, I would blow off auditions because I was afraid that I would be afraid in them.
What happens when the calm exterior of a TV personality hides a whirlwind of anxiety and panic? In this episode of 'Mental Illness Happy Hour', Paul Gilmartin sits down with Dave Holmes, a familiar face from MTV's Wanna Be a VJ contest and co-host of the podcast Homophilia. Despite his composed demeanor, Dave reveals the intense panic and anxiety that have shadowed his career and personal life.
The conversation dives into their shared Irish Catholic upbringing, the unique challenges of coming out to a family with mixed views on homosexuality, and the often-overlooked struggles of managing mental health in the public eye. Dave opens up about avoiding auditions and career opportunities due to fear, and how therapy has played a crucial role in his journey towards self-acceptance. He candidly discusses the shame and guilt he carried from a past job incident and how it affected his relationships.
Despite these hurdles, Dave’s story is one of resilience. His experiences offer a raw and relatable narrative for anyone grappling with similar issues. Paul also reads survey responses related to the LGBTQ+ community, shedding light on societal attitudes and their impact on mental health. This episode is more than just a celebrity interview; it’s a heartfelt conversation about embracing one's true self, the importance of seeking help, and finding happiness amidst chaos.
Tune in to hear Dave Holmes' inspiring journey and join the broader conversation about mental health and self-acceptance.