A Mother's Strength: Navigating Addiction and Setting Boundaries
So whether it be, you know, it takes years to get into that treatment- or whatever the case may be, it's that one person that is still in their corner, no matter what.
Ever wondered how a parent copes when both their children battle addiction? In this episode of 'The Unbreakable Boundaries Podcast', Jennifer Maneely sits down with Lisa Falbo, a mother who faced unimaginable challenges. Lisa opens up about her journey raising two sons who struggled with drug addiction, sharing the heart-wrenching and inspiring moments that defined her family's life.
Lisa's story begins with a seemingly normal family life, but things took a turn when her sons, Sam and Troy, started using drugs in their teens. The eldest, Sam, escalated to IV drug use and meth, experiencing periods of recovery and relapse before tragically passing away at 27. Her younger son, Troy, has been in and out of active drug use for over a decade and is currently incarcerated.
Throughout the conversation, Lisa emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, not just for her sons but for herself. She talks about the painful but necessary process of building emotional walls to protect her own well-being. 'It's about finding that balance between love and self-preservation', she explains. This episode isn't just about the struggles; it's also about the strength and resilience required to face such hardships.
One of the standout moments in the episode is when Lisa discusses the role of support systems. She co-founded The SHARE Project, an organization aimed at de-stigmatizing addiction and providing support to affected families. Lisa's insights into how crucial it is to have at least one unwavering supporter resonate deeply. 'It's that one person who stays in your corner, no matter what', she says.
For anyone dealing with similar issues, this episode offers a blend of practical advice and emotional support. Lisa's experience underscores the continuous need for self-love and the power of community in navigating the tumultuous waters of addiction. Tune in to hear her story and learn how you too can set unbreakable boundaries.