Danish Bashir
Danish Bashir
5 Weird sexual habits of a Narcissist
5 Weird sexual habits of a Narcissist
5 Weird sexual habits of a Narcissist
Friday 12th July 2024
Danish Bashir uncovers the bizarre sexual habits of narcissists that leave their partners feeling confused and devalued.
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Episode Overview
- Narcissists use 'approach avoidance' to control sexual encounters.
- They often demand sex after intense fights to reassert control.
- Narcissists prefer sexual positions that immobilise their partners.
- Excessive use of pornography further isolates their partners emotionally.
- Initial intimacy is often a façade that fades over time.
Sex to a narcissist is nothing but a way to feel control, to exert control and to feel dominant.
Ever wondered why sexual encounters with a narcissist feel so bewildering and painful? In this eye-opening episode, Danish Bashir, a psychologist and narcissistic abuse recovery professional, breaks down the bizarre sexual habits of narcissists that leave their partners feeling confused and devalued. Danish kicks off by discussing the 'approach avoidance' tactic, where a narcissist always denies sex when their partner wants it but demands it when they feel like it. This constant rejection leaves you questioning your self-worth and attractiveness.
Imagine feeling pressured to have sex just days after surgery, only to be threatened with infidelity if you refuse. That's the level of control we're talking about here. Next, Danish dives into the twisted habit of wanting sex immediately after an intense fight. Narcissists find pleasure in your pain, using sex as a way to reassert control and manipulate your emotions. It's not about love or intimacy; it's about power. Then there's the issue of controlling sexual positions.
Narcissists often prefer positions that immobilise their partners, turning them into objects rather than active participants. This need for dominance extends to their excessive use of pornography, where they choose fantasy over real connection, further isolating you emotionally. Finally, Danish addresses the lack of genuine intimacy. Initially, a narcissist may seem incredibly attentive and passionate, but this is just a façade. Over time, they withdraw affection, leaving you starved for connection and doubting your own worth.
This episode is a must-listen if you're trying to make sense of your confusing and painful experiences with a narcissistic partner. Danish offers invaluable insights into these toxic behaviours, helping you understand that it's not you—it's them. Tune in to learn how to break free from this damaging cycle and start your journey towards healing.