Five Bizarre Eating Habits of Narcissists Uncovered
Episode Overview
Narcissists often exhibit bizarre eating habits that reflect their need for control. These behaviours can range from animalistic eating to meticulous control over others' eating manners. 'Delorgasm' is a term used to describe the excitement narcissists feel when reliving their delusions during meals. Food can be used as a tool for psychological torture, either by restricting or force-feeding. Understanding these patterns can help in reclaiming peace and healing from past trauma.
If you were to give me cattle feed and mix it with some salt, I'll eat it as well. It doesn't matter.
Ever wondered how a narcissist's eating habits could be a window into their toxic behaviour? In this episode, Danish Bashir, a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Professional and Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist, shares his personal experiences growing up with a narcissistic father. He dives into five bizarre eating habits that narcissists often display, each one more unsettling than the last.
From behaving like wild animals at the dinner table to controlling every bite you take, these habits reveal much about their need for power and control. Danish recounts how his father would make loud noises while eating, dismiss any form of table manners, and even start fights over simple requests for quiet. Imagine being told that taste doesn't matter, and food is just fuel - that's the kind of environment Danish grew up in.
He also introduces the concept of 'delorgasm', where a narcissist relives their delusions and fantasies while eating, turning every meal into a stage for their grandiosity. Whether it's forcing meticulous eating habits or using food as a tool for psychological torture, these behaviours are all about exerting control. Danish's candid storytelling not only sheds light on these toxic patterns but also offers a sense of validation for those who've experienced similar trauma.
If you've ever felt trapped by a narcissist's manipulative ways, this episode might just resonate with you. Tune in to understand these unsettling habits and learn how to reclaim your peace and sanity.