Why Do People with BPD Lie? Insights from A.J. Mahari
Episode Overview
BPD lying stems from intense emotions, lack of impulse control, shame, distorted self-perceptions, and rejection sensitivity fMRI studies provide insights into the brain activity associated with BPD lying, raising questions about its potential biological basis BPD lying poses profound challenges to emotional intimacy and trust in relationships, often rendering them unsustainable and unhealthy
BPD lying in relationships. Obviously, no matter the reason for lying is very detrimental to relationships. In fact, it might be another key core reason why relationships with people with BPD are impossible.
Ever wondered why someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) might lie so frequently? In this episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups', Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach A.J. Mahari dives into the tricky world of BPD lying. With over three decades of experience, Mahari unpacks the reasons behind this behavior and its devastating effects on relationships. She explains that the lies often stem from intense emotions, impulse control issues, shame, distorted self-perceptions, and a deep fear of rejection.
But that's not all – Mahari also explores whether there's a biological aspect to this behavior, drawing on intriguing findings from brain imaging studies. This episode offers a compassionate yet clear-eyed look at the complexities of BPD lying, providing valuable insights for anyone struggling to understand or cope with these challenging dynamics. Whether you're dealing with a BPD relationship yourself or supporting someone who is, Mahari's expertise and empathetic approach make this episode a must-listen.