Healing Marital Struggles: When to Seek Counseling and Embrace Selflessness
Disputes are something that are going to come in marriage, and a successful marriage is able to resolve them properly biblically.
Marriage can be a wonderful journey, but let's face it, it's not always smooth sailing. In this episode of the Care In Counseling Podcast, Rev. Robert Wilson dives into the tricky waters of marital disputes. He offers a fresh take on how couples can navigate their issues by prioritising the relationship over individual grievances. One of the key points Wilson makes is the importance of 'dying to self'.
This might sound intense, but it simply means putting the relationship first and letting go of minor irritations that can escalate into bigger problems. It's about seeing the bigger picture and understanding that the union is more important than winning an argument. However, Wilson doesn't shy away from the reality that some disputes need more than just a shift in perspective. That's where counseling comes in.
He explains that seeking external help can provide an objective view and help couples understand each other better. But how do you know when it's time to get professional help? According to Wilson, frequent arguments, blowing up over minor issues, and threats to leave are all red flags that shouldn't be ignored. Waiting too long to seek help can make resolving these issues much harder, so it's crucial to act sooner rather than later.
With hope and a willingness to put in the effort, Wilson believes that every marriage has the potential to be saved. If you're curious about how to strengthen your marriage and when to seek outside intervention, this episode is a must-listen.