Why Empaths Fall for Narcissists: Breaking the Vicious Cycle
That moment is where you need that cognitive awareness that I'm getting pulled back into the trap and I am letting this person abuse me again. And then, like for me, I had to shake my head and I was like no, nope, that is not true. It's like wake up from the hypnotism, really shake your head, but it is part of that.
Ever wondered why some empaths seem to attract narcissists like moths to a flame? In this episode, Raven Scott sits down with psychotherapist Tami Kiekhaefer, LCSW, to unravel the mystery behind these recurring toxic relationships. Tami, who has been helping individuals, couples, and families since 2002, brings her wealth of experience to shed light on four key reasons why empaths often find themselves stuck in harmful relationship patterns.
You'll hear about childhood conditioning and people-pleasing tendencies that set the stage for future struggles. Tami and Raven discuss how toxic positivity can mask deeper issues, and why a lack of self-awareness and emotional intelligence can keep empaths trapped in the same cycles. Unresolved trauma also plays a significant role, as like energy attracts like energy, pulling empaths back into the quicksand of toxic relationships. This episode isn't just about identifying the problem; it's also about finding solutions.
Tami emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, setting boundaries, and understanding your unique energy vulnerabilities through Human Design Education. With these tools, empaths can gain the cognitive awareness needed to wake up from the hypnotism of toxic relationships and reclaim their power. So if you're tired of feeling like you're sinking in quicksand, this episode offers a lifeline. Tune in to learn how to break free from the cycle of bad relationships and start attracting healthy, compassionate connections.