Handling Heated Moments: Mistakes and Tips for Arguing with a Partner in Addiction
Episode Overview
Acknowledge the normality of feeling anger in the context of a partner's addiction Prioritize self-care and avoid explosive confrontations during arguments Refrain from internalising hurtful words and use music for emotional regulation
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Arguments are never easy, but when you're in a relationship with someone battling addiction, they can feel like navigating a minefield. In this episode of 'Love Over Addiction', Michelle Anderson dives into the tricky waters of arguing with a partner who is struggling with addiction. She breaks down three common mistakes we all make during these intense moments. You might find yourself nodding along, recognizing the missteps you've taken in the heat of the moment.
Michelle's advice is practical and grounded, offering real-world tips to help you manage your emotions and avoid those explosive confrontations that leave everyone feeling worse. From the importance of self-care to not letting hurtful words stick, she covers it all. Plus, she shares a unique tip: using music as a tool for emotional regulation. It's not just about surviving these arguments but finding ways to protect your well-being and maintain your peace.
If you're feeling overwhelmed and alone, this episode is a reminder that you're part of a community that understands your struggles and offers support. Tune in for some heartfelt advice and remember—you have the strength to get through this.