Growing Up with BPD: Sarah Haufrect's Journey Through Family and Mental Health
It took a long time for someone else to point out that my mom might have an actual disease. It allowed me to see the intellectual strengths, the silly quirks and the creativity she gave me- not just my shortcomings- and rediscover gratitude for the sum total of her influence.
Ever wondered what it's like to grow up with a parent who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? In this episode of 'Mental Illness Happy Hour', Paul Gilmartin sits down with Sarah Haufrect to unpack her life experiences. Sarah candidly discusses the rollercoaster of emotions she faced living with her mother, who she describes as 'beautifully disastrously complicated'. From the highs of intellectual stimulation to the lows of emotional turmoil, Sarah's story is a vivid tapestry of struggle and resilience.
But the conversation doesn't stop at her mother’s BPD. Sarah opens up about her own battles with bulimia, anxiety, and co-dependency. She shares how exercise has been a lifeline for her mental health, helping to stabilize her moods and provide a sense of control. This episode also delves into broader societal issues, like the normalization of sexual trauma and the misconception that financial wealth equates to emotional well-being.
Through it all, Sarah finds a way to express gratitude for the lessons her challenging upbringing taught her. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of mental health, family dynamics, and personal growth. Whether you have a loved one with BPD or are grappling with your own mental health issues, Sarah’s story offers a sense of connection and hope.