Tom Conrad

Real Recovery Talk

Tom Conrad

  • 245 - Loved ones: You are not helping....

245 - Loved ones: You are not helping....

Sunday 8th January 2023

Tom Conrad and Ben discuss how to support loved ones with addiction without enabling harmful behaviors. Learn about detaching with love and self-care.
28 minutes
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Real Recovery Talk
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Tom Conrad
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Categories:
Recovery Reimagined
Family Recovery from Addiction
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
Creative Recovery Journeys
Financial Health in Recovery
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When Love Becomes a Trap: Navigating Support for Addicted Loved Ones

It is very easy for people to get caught up in their emotions and think that they are doing good, when in fact they are not!
Ever thought you were helping, only to find out you might be doing more harm than good? In this eye-opening episode of 'Real Recovery Talk', hosts Tom Conrad and Ben dive into the tricky waters of supporting a loved one struggling with addiction. They unravel the often-misunderstood concept of 'enabling' and why sometimes, stepping back is the best step forward.
The episode sheds light on how emotions can cloud judgment, making it easy to think you're helping when you might be hurting instead. Tom and Ben stress the importance of 'detaching with love', a strategy that encourages loved ones to allow professionals to step in. This approach can make a world of difference in the recovery journey.
The discussion doesn't stop there; it also covers the realities of relapse, the ups and downs of treatment, and why seeking professional help is crucial. Self-care for caregivers is another key topic, emphasizing that looking after yourself is just as important as supporting your loved one. The hosts highlight how turning personal struggles into messages of hope can inspire others facing similar battles. This episode is a must-listen for anyone caught in the emotional whirlwind of supporting someone through addiction.
It's not just about understanding the addict's journey but also about finding the best ways to truly help without unintentionally causing harm.