Stan Mongaras: 33 Years of Sobriety and the Art of Staying Sober
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Imagine battling addiction for decades and coming out the other side with a wealth of wisdom to share. That's exactly what Stan Mongaras brings to the table in this episode of 'Sober Shares'. With 33 years of sobriety under his belt, Stan dives into the nitty-gritty of what it takes to stay sober long-term. He doesn't just skim the surface; he talks about the real stuff—honesty, making direct amends, and the crucial role of sponsorship.
Stan's approach to sobriety isn't just about avoiding alcohol; it's about embracing a whole new way of living. He attends at least three AA meetings a week to keep his emotional balance in check and maintain his sobriety. His relationship with God is his anchor, the cornerstone that has helped him navigate through rough waters. One of the most intriguing parts of Stan's story is what he calls 'The Art of Fleeing'.
It's his go-to strategy for avoiding relapse when things get tough. He shares how this method has been a lifesaver for him, offering practical advice that anyone can apply. But Stan's journey isn't just about him. He emphasizes the importance of helping others, whether it's through sponsorship or simply being there for someone in need. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone looking to understand the mechanics of long-term sobriety.
Whether you're new to recovery or have been on this path for a while, Stan's story is a powerful reminder that staying sober is an ongoing journey filled with ups and downs, but one that's absolutely worth it.