Duane Osterlind, LMFT

The Addicted Mind Podcast

Duane Osterlind, LMFT

  • 22: Relational and Betrayal Trauma with Marnie Breecker - Part Two

22: Relational and Betrayal Trauma with Marnie Breecker - Part Two

Thursday 4th January 2018

Join Duane Osterlind and Marnie Breecker as they explore relational and betrayal trauma's Six Dimensions and healing steps on The Addicted Mind Podcast.
45 minutes
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The Addicted Mind Podcast
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Duane Osterlind, LMFT
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Healing from Betrayal: Marnie Breecker on Relational Trauma

When a partner discovers that her spouse is a sex addict and then gets into treatment, and he gets into treatment and the nature and timeline of his sexual history begins to unfold, that information contradicts her core beliefs that her spouse will always protect her, will tell her the truth, will keep her safe, et cetera.
Have you ever felt the sting of betrayal so deep it shakes your very core? In this compelling episode of The Addicted Mind Podcast, host Duane Osterlind teams up with Marnie Breecker from the Center for Relational Healing to explore the intricate layers of relational and betrayal trauma. This isn't just another discussion; it's a deep dive into the Six Dimensions of Relational and Betrayal Trauma that many partners face after discovering addiction or infidelity.
Marnie breaks down these dimensions, starting with the 'Shattered Inner World', where core beliefs about trust, love, and safety are threatened. She likens this to the trauma of losing everything in a house fire. The journey continues through 'Life Crisis', 'Existential Trauma', and other stages that partners navigate as they grapple with their new reality. Each dimension highlights different aspects of the emotional turmoil and confusion that betrayal brings. But it’s not all doom and gloom.
Marnie also discusses practical steps for healing, emphasizing the importance of empathy from the addict and professional therapy for the partner. She shares insights into how group therapy can provide a supportive community, and how workshops like 'Helping Couples Heal' can offer structured paths to recovery. This episode is a must-listen for anyone dealing with the aftermath of betrayal, whether you’re seeking to understand your own pain or support a loved one through theirs.
It’s a blend of professional advice and heartfelt empathy that aims to provide hope and practical solutions.