G.D.Lengacher: Life Coach for Post-Divorce Healing, Finances, Career Choices
Podcast – Surviving Divorce Podcast
187 When Am I Ready To Start Dating
187 When Am I Ready To Start Dating
187 When Am I Ready To Start Dating
Sunday 12th June 2016
Discover when you're ready to date after divorce with expert tips on healing, co-parenting, and personal finance from the Surviving Divorce Podcast.
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G.D.Lengacher: Life Coach for Post-Divorce Healing, Finances, Career Choices
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Healing Relationships
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Financial Health in Recovery
Sobriety Toolkit
Healing from Sexual Trauma
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Get the buttons here!Ready to Date After Divorce? What You Need to Know First
Statistics show us that second marriages have a divorce rate of over percent. And you know, I honestly believe that this is because people rush into relationships long before they're ready and they're dragging so much baggage and so much hurt with them that it really sabotages the relationship before it has a chance to get off the ground.
Jumping back into the dating scene after a divorce can feel like a daunting task. In this episode of the 'Surviving Divorce Podcast', host G.D. Lengacher tackles the big question: 'When Am I Ready to Start Dating?' If you've been wondering whether it's time to dip your toes back into the dating pool, this episode is a must-listen. Lengacher starts by discussing the potential pitfalls of dating too soon.
While a new relationship might seem like the perfect distraction from the pain of divorce, rushing in can lead to more heartache down the line. It's important to take the time to heal and understand what you truly want in a partner before jumping into something new. He also stresses the importance of emotional readiness. If you still find yourself grappling with strong feelings toward your ex, it might be a sign that you're not quite ready to date yet.
Healing is a journey, and it's crucial to give yourself the time and space needed to process your emotions fully. Spiritual considerations also come into play. Experts suggest taking about a year of healing for every three to four years of marriage. This period allows you to let go of past baggage and start fresh with a clear mind and heart. When you do decide to date again, knowing what you're looking for in a partner is essential.
Lengacher advises writing down your ideal partner's qualities and taking things slowly. It's not just about finding someone who ticks all the boxes but also about finding someone who understands your unique situation, especially if you have kids or an ongoing relationship with your ex. The episode also dives into practical aspects like co-parenting and personal finance. Lengacher shares valuable tips on how to put your children first while navigating new relationships and offers advice on managing your finances post-divorce.
This episode is packed with insights that can help you make informed decisions about dating after divorce. Whether you're contemplating your first date or just curious about when you'll be ready, this episode offers guidance and support every step of the way.