Mind Your Words: Protecting Kids from Post-Divorce Conversations
Take care of these issues offline. Don't discuss financial matters in front of your ex or in front of your children. You do need to discuss them with your ex. Just don't discuss them in front of your children.
Divorce is tough, but it’s even tougher on kids. In this episode of the Surviving Divorce Podcast, G.D. Lengacher dives into why it's crucial for parents to watch what they say around their children after a separation. He kicks things off by reminding us that healing from divorce is a journey without shortcuts. But while adults navigate this rocky path, kids are often caught in the crossfire of conversations they shouldn't be part of.
Lengacher recounts an incident where a woman discussed financial woes with her ex-husband in front of their teenage daughter at a store. The discomfort on the girl's face was a clear sign that some topics are best kept behind closed doors. Financial issues can be particularly explosive, and Lengacher stresses the importance of handling these matters privately. He advises parents to avoid badmouthing their exes and to always put their children's emotional safety first.
This episode is packed with practical advice and real-life stories, making it a must-listen for anyone dealing with the challenges of co-parenting post-divorce.