3 Things People in Early Recovery Wish You'd Stop Saying
If just simply wanting to be sober was enough for somebody to be sober, treatment centers wouldn't exist. - Real Recovery Talk Ep. 147
Imagine you're just starting your recovery journey, and everyone around you seems to have an opinion. In this episode of 'Real Recovery Talk', host Tom Conrad and guest Benjamin get real about the three statements that people in early recovery absolutely hate hearing. They dive into the emotional layers of addiction, explaining why a simple desire to quit isn't enough for lasting change.
Tom and Benjamin share personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to respond to these well-meaning but often misguided comments. You'll hear about the importance of addressing the emotional issues that fuel addiction. Tom points out that drinking or using drugs is often a cover for deeper problems that need to be tackled for successful recovery. They also discuss the unrealistic expectations some people have about the recovery timeline. Think you can turn your life around in two weeks?
Think again. Recovery is a marathon, not a sprint, and it requires time and effort. The episode also touches on the challenges of returning home after treatment. Many people feel the urge to 'get back to normal' as quickly as possible, but Tom and Benjamin explain why this mindset can be counterproductive. They emphasize the importance of involving family members in the recovery process for added support and accountability.
Whether you're in recovery yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights into what not to say and why. It's a candid, compassionate look at the complexities of addiction and the hard work required for genuine recovery.