When Words Aren't Enough: Michael Stoller on Supporting Grief
Words fail, and just be there and be in the presence of that person and let that person get angry or get sad or cry, or just sit there or close their eyes or say nothing.
Ever been at a loss for words when comforting someone grieving? Michael Stoller knows that feeling all too well. In this heartfelt episode of 'MY BLUEPRINT: Struggle Towards Emotional Sobriety', Michael opens up about his experiences as a psychotherapist sitting with clients who've faced unimaginable losses. Picture a 12x12 room filled with the raw emotions of mothers who've lost sons and young boys grieving their best friends.
It's a space where words often fall short, and silence or a comforting touch speaks volumes. Michael dives into why phrases like 'I'm sorry for your loss' or 'they're in a better place' can sometimes do more harm than good. Instead, he advocates for simply being present, offering a hand to hold or just sitting in silence. It's about creating a space where grief can be felt and expressed without the pressure of finding the right words.
This episode is a candid and raw exploration of the human side of grief, offering valuable insights into how to truly support those who are mourning. Whether you're navigating your own grief or trying to be there for someone else, Michael's reflections provide a compassionate guide. Tune in for an episode that promises to leave you with a deeper understanding of the power of presence over words.