Keeping the Spark Alive: The Real Talk on Scheduled Sex
Episode Overview
Explores the complexities of scheduled sex in long-term relationships Offers candid insights into their own experiences and challenges Highlights the importance of understanding each other's needs Emphasizes the significance of fostering a genuine connection beyond physical intimacy Navigates the nuances of maintaining intimacy and harmony
So, if you are in a situation now, somebody and your partner, for whatever reason, it could be, you know, money worries, mental health conditions, babies, menopause, whatever. And you are thinking about talking to them about putting something into the diary so you can reconnect. Don't come at it from what you need. You know, I was just working out that god if I don't have sex this this will be done and I'm really missing sex and I want sex, which is totally normal for the person to say that because usually they're the person feeling rejected. And it's totally normal that you would go into the conversation thinking about yourself. But I don't think it will get you the grapes. It will just get you a fight with the gatekeeper to get the grapes.
Ever thought scheduling sex could be a romance killer? Nadia Sawalha and Mark Adderley are here to flip that notion on its head. In this episode, they dive into the often-taboo topic of planned intimacy, tackling the question: Is penciling in bedroom time a sign of trouble or a savvy way to keep the flames burning?
With their signature honesty and humor, Nadia and Mark share their own ups and downs, making you feel like you're chatting with close friends over coffee. They don't shy away from the awkward bits—expect candid discussions about emotional needs, communication hiccups, and the importance of staying connected beyond just the physical aspect. Whether you're skeptical or curious about the idea of scheduled sex, this episode offers a refreshing perspective that might just change your mind.
Perfect for couples looking to deepen their bond and navigate the complexities of long-term relationships, Nadia and Mark's conversation is both enlightening and entertaining. So grab your headphones and get ready for some real talk on love, intimacy, and everything in between.