Derik Johnson
Derik Johnson
080: NICE GUY SYNDROME with Steve Edwards
080: NICE GUY SYNDROME with Steve Edwards
080: NICE GUY SYNDROME with Steve Edwards
Thursday 2nd December 2021
Therapist Steve Edwards joins Derik Johnson on Alpha Quorum Podcast to discuss overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome and finding balance in modern masculinity.
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Get the buttons here!Breaking Free from Nice Guy Syndrome: Insights with Steve Edwards
We've been taught to be a good boy, follow the rules, not be rude and these ideas have been forcibly injected in our heads since we were able to speak.
Ever wondered why being the 'nice guy' often feels like a losing game? In this engaging episode of the Alpha Quorum Podcast, host Derik Johnson teams up with therapist Steve Edwards to dissect the complexities of Nice Guy Syndrome. They tackle the tough questions: Why does being overly nice backfire? How can men balance kindness with strength? And what does it mean to be truly integrated as a man?
Steve sheds light on how many men are conditioned from a young age to be compliant and agreeable, often at the expense of their own needs and desires. This conditioning can lead to covert contracts—unspoken agreements where men do things they don't want to do, hoping for approval or avoiding disapproval. The kicker? These contracts are rarely reciprocated, leaving men feeling frustrated and unfulfilled. The conversation goes beyond just identifying the problem.
Steve and Derik explore practical steps for breaking free from these unhealthy patterns. They discuss the importance of being honest about your feelings, seeking support through therapy or men's groups, and fostering meaningful male friendships. Steve also highlights the value of finding purpose and meaning in life as a way to overcome insecurities and anxious attachments.
This episode isn't just for men feeling trapped by Nice Guy Syndrome; it's a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding modern masculinity and personal growth. With a mix of humor and heartfelt advice, Derik and Steve offer a roadmap for becoming stronger, more integrated individuals.