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  • 002: Codependency vs. Co- Narcissism with Christine Louis de Canonville

002: Codependency vs. Co- Narcissism with Christine Louis de Canonville

Thursday 7th September 2017

Christine Louis de Canonville explains codependency vs. co-narcissism on 'The Savvy Shrink', offering insights into narcissistic abuse recovery.
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Understanding Codependency and Co-Narcissism: Insights from Christine Louis de Canonville

I think it's very important for us, as clinicians, to be reminded that co-dependent- the label co-dependent- was never intended to be used where there was violence, violent behavior by one person, the narcissist, against another person, the victim.
Ever found yourself confused about the difference between codependency and co-narcissism? This episode of 'The Savvy Shrink' is here to clear things up. Hosted by Andrea Schneider, LCSW, the episode features Christine Louis de Canonville, a seasoned psychotherapist with over two decades of experience. Christine sheds light on these often misunderstood terms and how they relate to survivors of narcissistic abuse. Christine argues that many therapists mislabel survivors of narcissistic abuse as codependent, which can hinder their recovery.
She explains that codependency involves relying on others for protection and nurturing, leading to feelings of despondency when those needs aren't met. In contrast, co-narcissists seek out compassionate caregivers but end up controlled by narcissists. The discussion dives into the complex dance between narcissists and co-narcissists, highlighting the defense mechanisms survivors use to protect themselves from ambient abuse and coercive control. Christine emphasizes the importance of therapists understanding these dynamics to better support their clients.
The episode also touches on Christine's book, 'The 3 Faces of Evil - Unmasking The Full Spectrum Of Narcissistic Abuse', which aims to fill gaps in therapist training regarding narcissistic abuse. The conversation wraps up with a hopeful note on the capacity for healing and growth among survivors, contrasting it with the limited potential for change in narcissists.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of narcissistic abuse and the nuanced differences between codependency and co-narcissism. It's informative, engaging, and offers valuable insights for both survivors and mental health professionals.