Making Amends: More Than Just 'I'm Sorry'
Episode Overview
Making amends involves more than just saying 'I'm sorry'; it requires addressing the emotional pain caused. The story of Nicky and Daisy highlights the generational impact of addiction. David Hain offers practical advice on how to approach making amends. Reflection on personal experiences is crucial for genuine apologies. Support systems play a vital role in the recovery process.
'Making amends really is to attempt to apologise for the emotional pain, the feelings that you inflicted on others as part of the harm in your behaviour'
In this episode of 'A2D - From Addict to Disciple', David Hain dives into the challenging yet crucial Step 9 of the 12 Steps: making amends. He shares the poignant story of Nicky and her mother Daisy, which spans four generations of women grappling with addiction and its aftermath. Nicky's journey through addiction, her struggles on Kensington Avenue, and her eventual desire to reconnect with her daughter offer a raw and honest look at the complexities of making amends.
David doesn't just tell their story; he also explores the emotional nuances of what it means to truly make amends. Is it enough to say 'I'm sorry', or does it require a deeper apology for the emotional pain caused? This episode prompts listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the steps they might need to take to mend broken relationships. Through a series of thought-provoking questions, David encourages self-reflection and offers practical advice on how to approach making amends.
Whether you're struggling with addiction yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode provides valuable insights and guidance on the path to healing.